or does it conjure up an image of beautiful, passionate love-making. But that's exactly why it's awesome. The word is kind of awkward, maybe a little embarrassing, even a tad ludicrous—just like you may feel while performing the action. Sex can be as lovely and fluid as synchronized swimming, or as crude and nasty as a smack on the ass.
I have a friend who manages to orgasm solely from rubbing up against her guy. Even though that's a wonderful testament to the female body and how it can find pleasure in a variety of ways, many TV shows, movies, and porn videos would have you think that the only method or achieving an orgasm is penetration. As women, we know that's not true. Whether you can get off from nipple play, or only on your stomach, or only with the help of a trusty vibrator, the point is that there's no one road to orgasm. And there should be no shame in doing whatever is possible to help you get there, no matter how silly it may look or feel in the moment.
Focusing on having a vaginal orgasm with no clitoral involvement not only makes tons of women feel like there's something wrong with them but also gets them out of their grooves during sex (hence making it harder to have an orgasm at all). So be the first person in your life to stop that pressure. When it comes to having an orgasm, women can achieve it in a variety of ways—period. So if you want to hump your guy, move your hips, grab a vibrator, or tell him to spank you...it's all good. And we hope you'll help us spread the word.
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